Hearing God when I am desperate and stressed

Hearing God when I am desperate and stressed

Jul 12, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

When life seems to be falling apart, an important decision needs to be made, or you are really stressed, do you struggle to know God’s thoughts and what He would have you do? This is often a time when we doubt we can hear God, even though we are desperately seeking Him. Join us as we flesh out these thoughts and offer practical strategies to help you hear God’s voice the next time you feel desperate and stressed.

Episode Notes:

First Principle: Ask for help

  • Ask for help/prayer from others.
  • Ask God to break through any clutter and noise.
  • Romans 8:34 Jesus is at the right hand of God interceding for us. I love the following verses 37-39, “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
  • Run to God – Psalm 46:10 – “Be still and know that I am God.”
  • Matt 11:28 – 30 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
  • Philippians 4:6-7 “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
  • Psalm 63:8 David stated, when facing being killed – “I cling to you. Your right hand upholds me”.
  • Luke 6:12 – Jesus prayed all night before making the major decision of choosing his 12 disciples.

Second Principle: Look at why you are desperate and stressed

  • Is it an internal or an external lack of peace?
  • Is it related to a major decision or a sin?
  • Will it matter in a few months/year?
  • Address physical issues, e.g., tired / sleep deprived, workload,
  • 1 Kings 19 – Elijah had just had a massive victory of showing up the prophets of Baal, and then next minute he’s scared and running for his life. He was tired and hungry. He prayed to God to kill him. God sent an angel to give him something to eat and to rest.
  • Is there an ‘end in sight’, e.g., end of study, etc?
  • Write down all the stuff stressing you – go from the abstract to the concrete. Seeing it in black and white can help. Chase inner peace.
  • Then ask God, “What are your thoughts, God, about this?”
  • May need to ask God a different question.
  • What are the things I can’t change?

Third Principle: Cultivate your relationship with God before stuff happens.

  • When kids were small, we would brainstorm what to do in adverse circumstances, e.g., at a party – code word.
  • Practice hearing God’s voice.
  • Practice turning first to God in all things.
  • Brainstorm scenarios and strategies/responses.

Summary:

  1. Ask for help.
  2. Look at why you are desperate or stressed.
  3. Cultivate your relationship with God before stuff happens.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, can You please bring to mind any decisions I need to make in the next few days?” (You may want to write them down.)
  • “God, can You please give me Heaven’s perspective, or the view from Heaven, on these decisions?”

Time Stamps:

[1:13] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[5:11] – Introduction to topic.

[6:28] – First principle: Ask for help.

[10:21] – Second principle: Look at why you are desperate and stressed.

[20:01] – Third principle: Cultivate your relationship with God before stuff happens.

[21:39] – Summary.

[22:21] – Prophetic activation.

[23:34] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[25:16] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Romans 8:34,37-39
  • Psalm 46:10
  • Matthew 11:28-30
  • Philippians 4:6-7
  • Psalm 63:8
  • Luke 6:12
  • 1 Kings 19

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

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Episode 116: What if God asks me to do something I don’t want to do?

Episode 116: What if God asks me to do something I don’t want to do?

Jul 5, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Have you ever thought that God might ask you to do something you didn’t want to do? Have you been hesitant to listen to God in case this occurs? Join us as we discuss this topic and share examples, unpacking what might be behind this line of thinking.

Episode Notes:

First Principle: Need to look at our view of God

  • Can I trust God to have my best interests at heart?
  • Is your God a good Father?
  • Can I put my faith in Him?
  • It could be likened to having a filter/blockage between God and me. Sometimes we don’t get the full picture.
  • Sometimes we don’t realise what we need, but God does.

Second Principle: Why wouldn’t I want to do what God is asking me to do?

  • Is it too hard? Scary? Do I dislike it?
  • Need to look at my motivation. We are Christians. Jesus Christ is my Lord and Saviour. Therefore, we obey Him and what He wants.
  • Theological question – Is my life my own? 1 Corinthians 6:12-20, especially 19-20 “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything—but I will not be mastered by anything…. (verse 19) You are not your own; you were bought at a price.”
  • What does God have for you on the other side of your fear?

Third Principle: Check out what you’ve heard.

  • Ask wise, trusted people.
  • Is your interpretation true?
  • What does the Bible say?
  • Intimacy with God is important.

Summary:

  1. We need to look at our view of God.
  2. Why wouldn’t I want to do what God asks me to do?
  3. Check out what you’ve heard.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, can You please show or tell me a colour?”
  • “God, what is that colour representing?”

Time Stamps:

[0:40] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:42] – First principle: Need to look at our view of God.

[7:12] – Second principle: Why wouldn’t I want to do what God is asking me to do?

[10:05] – Third principle: Check out what you’ve heard.

[12:07] – Summary.

[12:32] – Prophetic activation.

[14:03] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[17:01] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • 1 Corinthians 6:12-20
  • Daniel 5:5

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
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Episode 115: What do I do with what I heard God say?

Episode 115: What do I do with what I heard God say?

Jun 28, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Have you heard from God and are not sure what you are meant to do next? God is often more interested in who we are and the process than in the result. Join us as we discuss this topic, emphasising to check that what we thought was from God was indeed from God, and that timing is important, as God can often be in the delay.

Episode Notes:

First Principle: Make sure it was God’s voice

  • Episode 3 – the 4 different voices we can hear. Check the source.
  • Does it reflect the heart and character of God?
  • Does it bring peace or chaos?
  • Test it. Does it line up with the Bible, wise trusted people, etc.?
  • Look for confirmation. Ask God for confirmation.
  • 1 John 4:1 says to test that it is the Spirit of God.
  • Pray it through.

Second Principle: Depends on what it is

  • What is the fruit (outcome) of doing what you think you heard?
  • Galatians 5:19-23 fruit of the spirit vs acts of the flesh.
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:20-21 ‘Don’t despise prophecies. Test everything. Hold on to what is God.’
  • Contend. 1 Timothy 1:18-19 Paul says to Timothy – ‘Fight the good fight. Hold on to the prophecies about you.’
  • God’s more interested in who we are becoming and the process than the result.

Third Principle: Timing is important

  • Is it to pray or say?
  • Obey – usually when people say they are having trouble hearing God, I ask them when the last time was they heard God and did they obey what God asked them to do.
  • Growth and maturity. Faith step.
  • Be discerning who you share it with. Will they encourage or be wise with it?
  • Habakkuk 2:3 “For the vision is yet for an appointed time.” “For the revelation awaits an appointed time.”
  • The working out of the word can be in the delay. Not always an immediate outcome. It can sometimes take years to come to fruition. i.e., prepare you to be the person and character necessary.
  • Is it conditional on something?
  • Abraham in Genesis 15 was given the promise of a son and as many descendants as the stars in the sky. What he heard didn’t come true until 25 years later, with the birth of Isaac in Genesis 21, despite their messing it up by trying to make it come true by sleeping with Hagar.
  • In Genesis 37, Joseph was 17 years old when he had 2 dreams, one with his brothers’ sheaves bowing down to his sheaf, the other with the sun, the moon and 11 stars bowing down to him. It was at least 10+ years, maybe heaps more, before that came true, and he had been thrown in a pit, sold, falsely accused and put in prison.

Summary:

  1. Make sure it was God’s voice.
  2. Depends on what it is.
  3. Timing is important.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and maybe even hold your hands out to God. Imagine a major concern you have right now sitting in the palms of your hands. If nothing comes to mind, think of something you’d love to see in your life in 10 years’ time. Ask God to show you His heart for that burden/concern/desire, and one thing He would have you do to help bring it to fruition or see it resolved.

Time Stamps:

[0:36] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:54] – First principle: Make sure it was God’s voice.

[5:37] – Second principle: Depends on what it is.

[10:51] – Third principle: Timing is important.

[15:27] – Summary.

[15:49] – Prophetic activation.

[17:34] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[20:02] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • 1 John 4:1
  • Galatians 5: 19-23
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:20-21
  • 1 Timothy 1:18-19
  • Genesis 37
  • Habakkuk 2:3
  • Genesis 15
  • Genesis 21

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
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Episode 114: Hearing God about a career change – part 2

Episode 114: Hearing God about a career change – part 2

Jun 21, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Has your identity been based in your career? Is fear holding you back from making a change, or is the opportunity to change your career a distraction? Join us for part 2 of hearing God about a career change as we unpack these topics and share principles and tips for hearing God when discerning career changes.

Episode Notes:

Links to previous episodes:

  • Episode 71 – Will God tell me what to do with my life? (Looked at Daniel 5:5 where the fingers of a human hand appeared during a banquet of 1,000 nobles and wrote on the wall that basically he would die and he died that very night. God’s will for your life is not singular or solitary. Also, your identity is not in what you do but who you are.)
  • Episode 85 – Young adults and hearing God – a time of major decision-making.
  • Episode 98 – Hearing God about my vocation.
  • Episode 113: Hearing God about a career change part 1.

First Principle: Look at your discernment process.

  • Inner peace.
  • Align with the Bible
  • Wise, trusted people
  • Does this reflect the heart and character of Jesus?
  • Motivation – why change your career?
  • Are you content in all areas of your life?
  • Have you fasted and prayed? Luke 6:12 – Jesus selecting disciples
  • Be careful about rushing. God is outside of time. It’s a balance between not getting sucked into the thinking that you will never have an opportunity like this again and never making a decision, and being prepared to jump at the right opportunity quickly. I usually find that things like that don’t occur in isolation. There has already been a stirring in your heart. Great idea to journal so you can look at the last few months and see how God has been preparing you.
  • Gary shares how it can be like a dance with God, and we have a part to play.
  • Have others support you in prayer.
  • Discussed the will of God and whether God would make it occur no matter what.

Second Principle: Faith versus fear.

  • What do you fear? Is fear holding you back?
  • Is this opportunity a distraction?
  • Eric Liddell in Chariots of Fire “I believe God made me for a purpose – for China. But He also made me fast. And when I run, I feel His pleasure….To win is to honor Him.” (i.e. it doesn’t have to be either or, it can be both)
  • Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade – scene with the stepping stones appearing over the chasm.
  • Check your motivation – seek God first. Matt 6:33, Luke 12:31
  • Our career is not our identity. Step back and ask God – “What is happening?”, “What is my identity?”, “Has my identity been based in that role?”
  • Faith step
  • Proverbs 3:5-6 – Trust in the Lord and He will direct your path.
  • James 1:5-8 – ask for wisdom. Believe and do not be double-minded.
  • Be kind to yourself.
  • Discussed when we don’t have a choice re transitioning in our career.

Third Principle: Ask God direct questions.

  • Test.
  • Gideon in Judges 6:36-40 needed extra time and confirmation, so he asked God for a fleece (wool fleece to be wet with dew and ground around it dry), then another fleece (the opposite – wool dry and ground around it wet)
  • Basically, want to align with the Word of God and God’s plans.
  • Micah 6:8b “And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”
  • John 13:35 “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
  • Gary shared about a time when he asked God for a fleece.

Summary:

  1. Look at your discernment process.
  2. Faith versus fear.
  3. Ask God direct questions.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, if the segments/decisions/activities of my life were suitcases or bags, which bag would I want You to carry for me at the moment?”
  • “God, what do I need to know about that ‘bag’ now?”
  • “God, is there anything I need to do about any of the bags at the moment?”

Time Stamps:

[0:39] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:09] – Introduction to the topic and links to previous episodes.

[3:54] – First principle: Look at your discernment process.

[7:21] – Talking about the will of God.

[9:46] – Second principle: Faith versus fear.

[12:32] – Discussing if we have a choice in the transition and the implications.

[15:45] – Third principle: Ask God direct questions, or a different question.

[16:45] – A time when Gary asked God for a fleece.

[19:25] – Summary.

[19:48] – Prophetic activation.

[21:02] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[23:14] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Luke 6:12
  • Matthew 6:33
  • Luke 12:31
  • Proverbs 3:5-6
  • James 1:5-8
  • Judges 6:36-40
  • Micah 6:8b
  • John 13:35
  • Hebrews 12:1-3

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
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Episode 113: Hearing God about a career change part 1

Episode 113: Hearing God about a career change part 1

Jun 14, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Are you looking at a career change? Life is generally not a straight road, nor is it generally a 100-metre dash. It is often a marathon of intersections, curves, detours, wait zones and the occasional ‘wrong’ exit. Join us for part 1 of hearing God about a career change as we share about different times of transition in our lives, as we discerned God’s call and what we should do next, including valuable tips for hearing God about your career transitions.

Episode Notes:

  • Life is generally not a straight road, nor is it generally a 100-metre dash. It is often a marathon of curves, detours, intersections, wait zones and the occasional ‘wrong’ exit.
  • Often, it can depend on whether we have a choice in the process, or it is forced upon us.
  • It may also be dependent on timing, e.g. Joseph in Genesis 37-40.
  • Gary shared about his career changes. He emphasised having a real sense from God regarding the timing of any changes, and it should not just be a knee-jerk reaction to a challenging situation that God may be using to develop your character.
  • Jane shared about her career changes and the decision-making process with that.
  • Daniel 5:5, where the fingers of a human hand appeared and wrote on the wall – wouldn’t that make it so much easier!!
  • What we may think is a great career change, God may be in the fact that we don’t get the job.
  • There are ‘guard rails’ to operate within, and God gives us a lot of freedom within those ‘guard rails’.
  • Tips for hearing God include prayer and fasting, searching the Bible for principles, and finding one or two wise, trusted people who ask great questions to try to unpack what’s happening for you and your motivations.
  • Examples of Jane praying specifically for five to seven points for her children’s jobs.
  • You don’t want to have regrets. Give it a go.

Summary of what we’ve looked at today:

  • Gary & Jane both share their career changes and the decision-making processes behind those changes.
  • Some tips when trying to hear God about a career change.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, is there something about a decision I’m facing at the moment that I would regret if I don’t do it?”
  • “God, what is something I would love to do but I haven’t yet had the opportunity to do?”

Time Stamps:

[0:53] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[5:28] – Introduction to the topic and links to previous episodes.

[6:11] – Gary shares his career changes and his decision-making processes.

[11:15] – Jane shares her career changes and her decision-making processes.

[18:35] – Some tips for hearing God about decisions.

[20:24] – Jane shares about specific prayer points she used for her children’s jobs.

[21:49] – Jane shares about an audible voice to homeschool their children.

[23:42] – You don’t want to have regrets.

[24:48] – Summary.

[25:25] – Prophetic activation.

[26:28] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[29:04] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Genesis 37-40
  • Daniel 5:5

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 112: What if I don’t recognise it’s God?

Episode 112: What if I don’t recognise it’s God?

Jun 7, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Do you ever have a thought pop into your head that may be God speaking to you, but you go, “No, that’s just me”? In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, we unpack this, consider whether it really matters, and explore how we can make sure we recognise that it’s God speaking to us.

Episode Notes:

Background to this topic:

  • In Darwin, we were running a session on hearing God, and one of the people gave the Bible verse – Joshua 1:9 “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lordyour God will be with you wherever you go.” Thought it was just her own thoughts.
  • Episode 18 – Am I hearing God or is it just me?
  • Episode 4 – The different ways God can talk to us.
  • Episode 27 – Times when we can easily miss hearing God
  • Episode 3 – The different voices we can hear.

First Point: When we don’t recognise it’s God, we usually give ourselves the credit.

  • We can think it’s our own thoughts.
  • It seems a natural progression in our thoughts.
  • Faith quotient comes into play here – are my desires overpowering God’s voice?
  • Am I aware of how God can speak? Episode 4 – the different ways God talks to us.
  • Sometimes we don’t recognise God because we have an incorrect theology and don’t think God would be interested in talking to us. It can tie in with our self-worth.
  • Do we sometimes not recognise God because it’s not what we think God would say? i.e., we are praying for a different answer or a different method of achieving that answer.
  • Trusting God wants to talk with you and that He is talking to you.

Second Point: Does it really matter if we don’t recognise it’s God?

  • I suppose it depends on what it actually is. If God is trying to ‘hit us over the head’ with telling us something and we don’t recognise it’s God, then that’s an issue.
  • Eg Balaam and the donkey Numbers 22-24. Episode 49 (If a donkey can hear God, then what about me?)
  • Balaam got on his donkey, and 3 times the angel of the Lord stood in the donkey’s way. 1st time the donkey turned off the path to the field. Balaam beat the donkey. 2nd time was in a narrow path, and the donkey pressed close to the wall, crushing Balaam’s foot. Balaam beat the donkey again. 3rd time, the donkey lay down. Balaam beat the donkey again. Then the donkey said to Balaam, “What have I done to make you beat me 3 times?”
  • Balaam responded, “You have made a fool of me. If only I had a sword, I would kill you right now.”
  • The donkey said, “Am I not your own donkey, which you have always ridden? Have I ever done this to you before?”
  • “NO”, said Balaam. (Notice how he was so intent on sinning that he didn’t notice the strange phenomenon of a talking donkey??)
  • Then the Lord opened Balaam’s eyes, and he saw the angel of the Lord standing in the road with his sword drawn. Balaam bowed low and fell face down.
  • The angel said, “Why did you beat the donkey? I came here to oppose you because your path is a reckless one. The donkey saw me and obeyed. If the donkey hadn’t turned away and tried to stop, I would have killed you, but I will now spare your life.”
  • Be alert both to watch for God and against the path of sin.
  • The Disciples were with Jesus 24/7, yet they still didn’t recognise Jesus after He rose from the dead and walked and chatted with them on the road to Emmaus.

Great question: how can we make sure we do hear God?

  • Intimacy with God.
  • Accountability
  • Journal
  • Prayer points – sometimes don’t thank God for answers to prayer as we forget we prayed for that.
  • Wise people in your life.
  • Read the Bible
  • Read autobiographies of Christians who did great things.
  • Hudson Taylor’s secrets to his ministry.
  • Reduce sin. Obey quickly.
  • Don’t try to shortchange God, e.g., Abraham and Sarah, with having children. Abraham slept with Hagar. Genesis 16. Episode 62 Abraham and Episode 48 Hagar.

Summary of what we’ve looked at today:

  1. When we don’t recognise it’s God, we usually give ourselves the credit.
  2. Does it really matter if we don’t recognise it’s God?
  3. Looked at how we can make sure we hear God.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, can You please bring someone to mind in the next few moments that I could contact today to encourage?”

Time Stamps:

[0:37] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:43] – Background to this topic.

[7:31] – First Principle: When we don’t recognise it’s God, we usually give ourselves the credit.

[9:36] – Second Principle: Does it really matter if we don’t recognise it’s God?

[15:27] – How can we make sure we hear God?

[17:38] – Summary

[18:06] – Prophetic activation.

[19:03] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[22:03] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Joshua 1:9
  • Numbers 22-24
  • Luke 24
  • 1 Corinthians 14:3
  • Genesis 16

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
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Episode 111: Hearing God amidst noise and chaos

Episode 111: Hearing God amidst noise and chaos

May 31, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

We can hear God in the quiet as well as amongst the noise. Often, it can depend on whether the noise and chaos are internal or external. Join us in this episode of the Hearing God Podcast as we unpack this topic.

Episode Notes:

First Point: What is the chaos and noise?

  • Chaos and confusion come from Satan, but not always.
  • 1 Corinthians 14:33 “For God is not a God of confusion or disorder, but of peace.” The Message Bible puts it, “God doesn’t stir us up into confusion; he brings us into harmony.”
  • Is the chaos and noise inside you or around you?
  • Are you at peace? It is easier to hear God if you have inner peace. Then there is no competition for your attention.

Second Principle: Ask God the source of the chaos and noise, and what your response could be.

  • If it is noisy around you and you are struggling to hear God, remove yourself or participate in a way you know how.

Third Point: Regularly set aside time and a quiet place to hear God.

  • Create a prayer closet. (Movie – War Room)
  • Practice hearing God in the quiet so that you are prepared if amidst noise and chaos.

Summary:

  1. In hearing God amidst chaos and noise, look at what the chaos is.
  2. Ask God the source of the noise and chaos, and what your response could be.
  3. Regularly set aside time and a quiet place to hear God.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, is there noise and chaos in my life I need to deal with or get rid of?”
  • “God, if so, what can I do about that?”

Time Stamps:

[0:36] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[4:21] – What is the chaos and noise?

[6:37] – Ask God the source and what your response could be.

[9:30] – Regularly set aside time and a quiet place to hear God.

[14:50] – Summary.

[15:25] – Prophetic activation.

[16:33] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[18:17] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • John 10:10
  • 1 Corinthians 14:33
  • Isaiah 43:1

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 110: Hearing God about sin

Episode 110: Hearing God about sin

May 24, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, we tackle the topic of sin and how that can block us hearing God. Join us as we unpack what sin is, the hope that we have in Jesus Christ, our response, and what we can do about hearing God in relation to both our own and other people’s sin.

Episode Notes:

Definition of sin:

  • Anything that takes the place of God in our lives.
  • A position.
  • A break in our relationship with God.

Core Verses About Sin.

  • Romans 3:23 (NIV): “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”
  • Galatians 5:19-23 – the acts of the flesh and the fruit of the spirit
  • Isaiah 59:2 (ESV): Sin causes separation: “But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God…”
  • Romans 6:23 (ESV): “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
  • 1 John 1:8-9 (NIV): “If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves… If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”
  • Psalm 103:12 (NIV): God’s forgiveness: “As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.”

The role of our conscience.

  • Hearing God in relation to your sin can be as simple as listening to your conscience.
  • Trust your ‘gut’, that unease.
  • Sin can also block you hearing God.
  • Anything that blocks you hearing God, address immediately. Have a lifestyle of being quick to obey God.

Don’t focus on sin.

  • Don’t focus on the sin. Ask God to show you what is underneath or at the core/root of your sin, e.g., fear or money – not fully able to trust God will provide.
  • Look at what you are focusing on. You become what you behold.
  • Focus on God’s love.

Hearing God in relation to other people’s sin.

  • It’s not really your job. Leave it to God.
  • Ask God – do I say anything or do I pray?
  • Focus on God’s love for the person.

Look at the purpose or why God has shown you.

  • Is it to pray or say? Know when to keep your mouth shut.
  • Like an old-style negative of a photograph being developed. Don’t be in a rush.
  • Ask questions of God – why has God shown you this?
  • What am I meant to do with it, God? If I’m to share it, how would you like me to share it, Lord?
  • Also need to ask God for His timing. Is it a word for now, or do I keep it between God and me?
  • Speak in private: Matt 18:15-16 (just between the two of you).
  • Be kind & gentle: Galatians 6:1-2
  • Forgiveness reigns: Luke 17:3-4
  • 1 Corinthians 14:3 – be encouraging, comforting, and strengthening.

Summary of what we have chatted about today:

  1. What sin is.
  2. The role of our conscience.
  3. Don’t focus on sin.
  4. Hearing God in relation to other people’s sin.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, please bring to my mind any sin in my life I need to confess and deal with.”

Time Stamps:

[2:06] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[9:00] – Definition of sin.

[11:59] – The role of our conscience.

[14:20] – Don’t focus on sin.

[18:44] – Hearing God in relation to other people’s sin.

[23:03] – Summary.

[23:39] – Prophetic activation.

[24:17] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[25:51] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Romans 3:23
  • Galatians 5:19-23
  • Isaiah 59:2
  • Romans 6:23
  • 1 John 1:8-9
  • Psalm 103:12
  • Matthew 18:15-16
  • Galatians 6:1-2
  • Luke 17:3-4
  • 1 Corinthians 14:3
  • John 10:10

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
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Episode 109: Unpacking hearing God through sight

Episode 109: Unpacking hearing God through sight

May 17, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Do you want to grow in seeing what God’s doing around you in the Spirit? In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, we unpack the how, why, when and who, as well as the different ways to see in the Spirit.

Episode Notes:

First Point: I believe we are born able to see physically and spiritually.

  • Seeing in both the natural and supernatural. We can grow both.
  • John 5:19 “Jesus gave them this answer: “Very truly I tell you, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does.”
  • John 8:38 “I speak of what I have seen with my Father.” (Spirit to spirit)
  • We can shut down the gift of sight through inner vows, being scared, nightmares etc. So important to protect our children’s gift of seeing in the spirit.
  • We also see what we focus on. E.g. angels or demons

Second Principle: There are different ways of seeing spiritually.

  • Some people can see dark clouds over people, others see angels and demons, others glimpse something out of the corner of their eye, others see colours or a picture. Also, dreams are part of seeing spiritually, but we won’t unpack them today.
  • Don’t limit God in the ways he can show you things.
  • Word of caution – chase God, not spiritual beings or the experience.
  • Gary unpacks how he sees in the spirit and the questions he asks.

Third Principle: You can grow in seeing spiritually.

  • Ephesians 1:18-19
  • 2 Kings 6:15-20
  • Brother Andrew (YWAM Christian Heroes then and now by Jannette & Geoff Benge) – during the Cold War, he was trying to cross behind the Iron Curtain into the Soviet Union. He prayed, “Lord, in my luggage I have Scripture I want to take to Your children. When You were on earth, You made blind eyes see. Now, I pray, make seeing eyes blind. Do not let the guards see those things You do not want them to see.”
  • Invite the angels to make themselves known to you. Practice in a spiritually dense atmosphere, e.g. worship, a quiet place at home
  • Pay attention to your peace.
  • Journal
  • Read the Bible – enlarge your view of God and what He can do
  • Mentor/accountability
  • Choose faith over fear.
  • John 16:13 The Holy Spirit will guide us in all truth.

Summary:

  1. I believe we are born able to see physically and spiritually.
  2. There are different ways of seeing spiritually.
  3. You can grow in seeing spiritually.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, can You please show me where You are in relation to me at the moment?” (You may get a sense, knowing, feeling, hear or see something.)
  • “God, what would You like to share with me at the moment?”

Time Stamps:

[0:48] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[4:38] – Links to previous episodes.

[7:40] – First Principle: I believe we are born able to see physically and spiritually.

[12:30] – Second Principle: There are different ways of seeing spiritually.

[14:25] – Third Principle: You can grow in seeing spiritually.

[19:12] – Summary

[19:34] – Prophetic activation.

[20:49] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[23:24] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • John 5:19
  • John 8:38
  • Matthew 13:13-15
  • Ephesians 1:18-19
  • 2 Kings 6:15-20
  • John 16:13

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
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Episode 108: Hearing God through Coincidences

Episode 108: Hearing God through Coincidences

May 10, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Do you notice many coincidences in your life? Have you ever thought that God may be trying to get your attention through these coincidences? They are often referred to as miracles where God chooses to remain anonymous. In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, we unpack how God uses coincidences to communicate with us and how important it is to chase God, not signs.

Episode Notes:

  • Anyone who has listened to a few episodes of our podcast will no doubt have heard how I (Jane) hear God through coincidences.
  • Don’t go focusing on signs and attaching meaning to them – focus on God.
  • Not every unusual thing means it is God trying to communicate with us. I see it as God trying to get my attention. I notice weird stuff as a nudge to take time to go deeper with God.

First Principle: God uses coincidences to communicate with us

  • g. Gideon in Judges 7 – Co-incidence – God woke him up during the night and sent him down to the Midianite camp to listen. The exact moment he was outside the Midianite camp, he heard them talking about him and how he had defeated the Midianites (a loaf of barley came crashing down. God has a sense of humour – Gideon threshing wheat!!). Gave him courage.
  • I like to think coincidences are when God chooses to remain anonymous.
  • Ask, “Where is God in this?” Why was I stirred?
  • Numbers, signs, names.
  • God is sovereign. It is so important to discern.
  • Purpose of signs – Exodus 4:1-17 Moses with rod, leprosy, etc. Moses felt unqualified. God used the staff to show him that He (God) was with him and could do miracles.
  • John 20:30-31 Jesus did many signs so we would believe. Signs are not wrong.
  • Who God is, and His power and His presence with us, are what’s important.
  • It’s like God dropping hints. Wanting a relationship. 1 Kings 19:11-13 – still small voice

Second Principle: Position yourself in God’s slipstream

  • g. bike riding just behind a car.
  • Don’t go looking for signs but get stuck into reading the Bible.
  • Ephesians 4:23
  • Romans 12:2 – be transformed by the renewing of your mind so you can discern and approve what God’s will is.
  • Know God’s Word – John 4 – timing of Jesus with the Samaritan woman at the well.
  • Matthew 14 and Luke 9 – multiplying of food and resources.
  • Matthew 14 – through nature and calming the storm
  • Align with God’s character and purpose.
  • Pray for eyes to see (2 Kings 6:17 Elisha with his servant when surrounded by the enemy but saw hills full of horses and chariots of fire around Elisha), ears to hear (Ezekiel 40:4) and a heart to feel (Eph 1:18 – the eyes of your heart)

Third Principle: Don’t base decisions on one-off coincidences.

  • Psalm 119:105 God’s Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.
  • God usually highlights something several times.
  • Be discerning. Not who to marry or major life decisions, etc.
  • Test for fruit.
  • Avoid forcing interpretation, i.e. do NOT seek signs to force a specific outcome. Seek God.
  • Grow in discernment. God isn’t chaotic or confusing. Rest in Him and His goodness. Look at God’s character through the Bible, ask mature people, and look at the fruit. Ask for wisdom, James 1:5, Matthew 7:7 (ask, seek and knock) plus good and bad fruit verses 15-20
  • We want instant answers, but God wants relationship.
    • Eg Joshua 6 and marching 6 times around the wall before the seventh time
    • 1 Kings 18:42-46 Elijah sent the servant seven times to look for a rain cloud
    • 2 Kings 5:1-5 Naaman washed in the Jordan River seven times before being healed from leprosy

Summary:

  1. God uses coincidences to communicate with us.
  2. Position yourself in God’s slipstream.
  3. Don’t base decisions on one-off coincidences.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “Lord, open my eyes to see You, my ears to hear You and my heart to feel You.”
  • “Lord, what do You want me to see, hear, know, and feel about You at the moment?”
  • You might even like to ask, “Lord, can You please bring to mind a coincidence from the last few days and what that was about?”

Time Stamps:

[1:10] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[4:51] – Warnings about coincidences.

[7:45] – First Principle: God uses coincidences to communicate with us.

[11:54] – Second Principle: Position yourself in God’s slipstream.

[15:03] – Third Principle: Don’t base decisions on one-off coincidences.

[18:08] – Summary

[18:30] – Prophetic activation.

[19:39] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[22:19] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Judges 7
  • Exodus 4:1-17
  • John 20:30-31
  • 1 Kings 19:11-13
  • Daniel 5:5
  • Ephesians 4:23
  • Romans 12:2
  • John 4
  • Matthew 14
  • Luke 9
  • 2 Kings 6:17
  • Ezekiel 40:4
  • Ephesians 1:18
  • Psalm 119:105
  • James 1:5
  • Matthew 7:7, 15-20
  • Joshua 6
  • 1 Kings 18:42-46
  • 2 Kings 5:1-5

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 107: Language around Hearing God

Episode 107: Language around Hearing God

May 3, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Hearing God is more than just ‘hearing’ from God. It is using all our senses and ‘experiencing’ God. In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, Gary shares how he experiences God, how to notice subtle nuances, and how to ask questions and unpack with God what he is picking up. We then share how, if children don’t have the language to describe what is happening to them, they will often act out the atmosphere. We share practical tips to help you change the atmosphere.

Episode Notes:

First Principle: Hearing God is more than just hearing. It is experiencing God.

  • We can hear God, but we also see, feel, know, dream, imagine, taste, and smell.
  • Gary shared how he receives from God and the process he does with noticing nuances and unpacking them with God and asking further questions.
  • You can grow in new ways of receiving from God.

Second Principle: It helps when we have language to describe what’s occurring.

  • If children don’t have the language to describe what is happening, they can often act it out.
  • We can change atmospheres by what we sense, feel, know, etc.
  • We share the process of identifying what isn’t of you and how to change the atmosphere around you.
  • Say – fear go, peace come. Or I see you perversion, and bind you and release truth and love.

Summary:

  1. Hearing God is more than just hearing. It is experiencing God.
  2. It helps when we have language to describe what’s occurring.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him –

  • “God, can You please show me in the next 24 hours, an atmosphere that I enter that evokes a strong feeling/emotion in me that is a product of the environment or another person and is not mine (e.g. anger, jealousy, etc), and then can You please remind me what to do with it (e.g. fear go, peace come)?”

Time Stamps:

[0:51] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[4:21] – First Principle: Hearing God is more than just hearing God. It is experiencing God.

[11:03] – Second Principle: It helps when we have language to describe what’s happening.

[17:08] – Summary

[17:50] – Prophetic activation.

[18:53] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[20:56] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 106: Hearing God about Names

Episode 106: Hearing God about Names

Apr 26, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Names are specific and point to something or someone. They identify people and places. Names can also influence our perception, especially in relation to God. Join us in this episode of the Hearing God Podcast as we unpack the significance of our name and hear God about both our name and God’s names.

Episode Notes:

Background to names and hearing God

  • Driving up country and noticed unusual names of roads –
    • Glue Pot Road
    • Cockpit Lagoon Road
    • Mile Past Lane
  • These names carried significance. E.g., a mile past road.
  • When we named our children, we chose specific names for their meaning.
  • Gary & Jane share the meaning of their names.

First Principle: Names are important to God

  • I’ve felt for ages that names influence our perception – e.g. names of God – influence how we see God.
  • John 1:1 – In the beginning was the Word. Jesus’ name
  • Jehovah – YHWH my breath ‘I am’ (Exodus 6:2)
  • El Roi – The God who sees me (Genesis 16:13 Hagar)
  • El Shaddai – God Almighty (Genesis 17:1)
  • Jehovah Jireh my provider – the One who sees my need (Genesis 22:13-14)
  • Jehovah Rapha – the Lord is our healer – (Exodus 15:26)
  • Jehovah Magen – my shield and protector (Deut 33:29)
  • El Elyon – the Most High exalted God (Genesis 14:18-20, Psalm 57:2, Ps 78:35)
  • Jehovah Shalom – the Lord is peace (Judges 6:24)
  • Yahweh Rohi – the Lord is my shepherd (Psalm 23)
  • Jehovah Selah – the Lord is my rock (Psalm 78:35, Ps 18:2)
  • Psalm 18:2 The Lordis my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.
  • El HaNe’eman – the Faithful God (Deut 7:9 “Know therefore that the Lordyour God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments.”)
  • Elohay Mishpatt – the God of justice (Isaiah 30:18)
  • Emmanuel – God with us (Isaiah 7:14)
  • Elohay Selichot – God of forgiveness (Nehemiah 9:17 “But you are a forgiving God, gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love.”)

Second Principle: The meaning of our name is significant

  • Do you know the meaning of your name? It is usually no accident.
  • Names signify identity.
  • How are you known on earth, and also in heaven? What does your name say about your character and your calling?
  • I encourage people to look at the names of God and Jesus and choose one. Then explore what that name means and what it reveals about God or Jesus’ character. Then look at how knowing that affects your belief, attitude, actions or prayer.
  • Then ask God:
    • “Lord, what do you want me to know about this?”
    • “In what ways haven’t I fully understood this part of your character, God?”

Third Principle: Our names can be redeemed.

  • For those who don’t like their name or have struggled with its meaning, what’s the way forward…
  • Ask God. Listen to what He says.
  • Ask your parents (if they are still alive) why they called you that name.
  • Think outside the square. Episode 15 – If God calls you a builder, it might not be building with your hands. It might be building people, building wealth and resources, building the Kingdom of God. It might be related to building blocks e.g. teaching.
  • Names can be changed. People’s names and place names in the Bible were often changed e.g. Simon to Peter, Abram to Abraham, Jacob to Israel.
  • Redeem your name if it has a negative connotation – look at the opposite meaning.
  • Prayer ministry.

Summary:

  1. Names are important to God.
  2. The meaning of our name is significant.
  3. Our names can be redeemed.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him to reveal a name He calls Himself that you may not fully grasp. You may want to journal this.

  • Explore what that name means and what it reveals about God or Jesus’ character. Then look at how knowing that affects your beliefs, attitudes, actions, or prayers.
  • Then ask, “Lord, what do you want me to know about this?”
  • “God, in what ways haven’t I fully understood this part of your character?”
  • “Lord, because this is true, I will…”

Time Stamps:

[0:36] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[2:12] – Background to names and hearing God.

[6:27] – First Principle: Names are important to God.

[10:00] – Second Principle: The meaning of our name is significant.

[13:20] – Third Principle: Our names can be redeemed.

[15:47] – Summary.

[16:24] – Prophetic activation.

[18:12] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[21:03] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Genesis 3:20
  • John 1:1 – In the Beginning was the Word (Jesus’ name)
  • Exodus 6:2 – Jehovah – YHWH – my breath – ‘I am’
  • Genesis 16:13 – El Roi – the God who sees me
  • Genesis 17:1 – El Shaddai – God Almighty
  • Genesis 22:13-14 – Jehovah Jireh – my Provider – the One who sees my need
  • Exodus 15:26 – Jehovah Rapha – the Lord is our healer
  • Deuteronomy 33:29 – Jehovah Magen – my shield and protector
  • Genesis 14:18-20; Psalm 57:2; Psalm 78:35 – El Elyon – The Most High Exalted God
  • Judges 6:24 – Jehovah Shalom – the Lord is peace
  • Psalm 23 – Yahweh Rohi – the Lord is my shepherd
  • Psalm 78:35; Psalm 18:2 – Jehovah Selah – the Lord is my rock (Psalm 18:2 – The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.)
  • Deuteronomy 7:9 – El HaNe’eman – the Faithful God
  • Isaiah 30:18 – Elohay Mishpatt – the God of justice
  • Nehemiah 9:17 – Elohay Selichot – God of forgiveness
  • Acts 13:9
  • Matthew 16:18
  • John 1:42
  • Genesis 17:5
  • Genesis 32:22-31
  • 1 John 1:9

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
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Prayer Calendar - praying the names of God

Episode 105: Hearing God for someone else

Episode 105: Hearing God for someone else

Apr 19, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Have you ever wanted to share with someone God’s heart towards them? In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, we share guidelines and practical steps in beginning to hear God for others and then sharing that with them. We also cover the question, “Is it God or is it my thoughts?”

Episode Notes:

Past episodes on how we can begin to receive God’s heart for others.

  • In episode 5, we shared that a prophetic word is hearing or receiving something from God for someone else. It is communicating God’s heart for someone.
  • In episode 7, we looked at guidelines for prophesying – when we communicate what we feel God is saying to someone else.
  • We emphasised that a prophetic word should not take the place of hearing God for yourself, but should confirm what God has already revealed to you.
  • In episode 6, we looked at what to do if you get a negative prophetic word. If you haven’t already listened to those episodes, we encourage you to go back and listen as we unpack how to handle negative words and the Biblical principle in 1 Corinthians 14:3 that a prophetic word must be encouraging, comforting, and strengthening.

Some guidelines to follow:

  • The underlying principle is love. 1 Corinthians 13:2 “If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.”
  • First encounter God’s heart and then speak out of that love for people.
  • Prophecy is both the impartation of God’s Spirit & His message. In delivering the prophecy, we need to convey both to the person.
  • God’s heart is for everyone to communicate with Him. Everyone can hear God and prophesy. Joel 2:28-29 “I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your old men will dream dreams, your young men will see visions.”
  • Prophesying is not just for people with a special gift. It is all inclusive.
  • Don’t get caught up in “is it God or is it me?”
  • It’s a gift. The person can embrace it, shelve it, or reject it.
  • Ask permission first before you share.
  • Ask God for a starting point – an image, an action, a Bible verse, a word. Something concrete, not nebulous.
  • Then ask God, “What do You want me to say about that?”

How we grew in the prophetic:

  • First thought principle.
  • Practical examples of what we did.

Other thoughts:

  • Our goal in prophecy is to accurately re-present God. We seek to convey His loving nature, to use His tone, pace, language, gestures, demeanour & regard for the person.
  • Prophecy is an invitation, so avoid putting demands on the person by using should or must statements. e.g., I sense God wants to show you many hidden truths in the Bible rather than “you need to read the Bible more”.
  • Every word must be judged by the receiver. – Ask people to test each word we give to ensure it lines up with God’s nature, Scripture and what else God is saying to them (1 Thessalonians 5:20-21 “Do not treat prophecies with contemptbut test them all; hold on to what is good,”
  • Just because we have a prophetic word doesn’t mean it will come true. Need to partner with it.
  • You are pointing the person to God and glorifying God, not yourself.
  • I love to ask, ‘Does this resonate with you?’ If not, you can shelve it, bin it or step into it.
  • Prophesying over people is exciting and rewarding to be a part of, plus a privilege, but it also carries with it the weight of responsibility. Keeping these points in mind means that you will be able to release the Father’s heart in a way that reflects who God is more accurately.

Summary:

Today, we have shared some basics to keep in mind when you begin prophesying.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him to bring to mind a person who’s having a birthday soon. Write a birthday card, or an encouragement note to someone if no one’s having a birthday. Ask God what to write. Ask God how He sees this person. Don’t overthink it.

Time Stamps:

[0:37] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:33] – Recap of last episode.

[3:47] – Relevant episodes for hearing God for others.

[5:07] – Underlying principles for prophesying.

[6:15] – Practical steps to begin prophesying.

[10:38] – Steps Gary took to grow in the prophetic.

[11:57] – Steps Jane took to grow in the prophetic.

[15:51] – Summary

[16:07] – Prophetic activation.

[17:35] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[19:46] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • 1 Corinthians 14:3
  • 1 Corinthians 13:2
  • Joel 2:28-29
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:20-21

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 104: Gary’s experience with hearing God

Episode 104: Gary’s experience with hearing God

Apr 12, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

In Gary’s early years, he had glimpses of God, but they never progressed or built on each other, so his understanding of and connection with God never matured. In this episode, Gary shares his experience of God and unpacks the process of how he receives from God.

Episode Notes:

  • Jane tends to do most of the talking, so this episode unpacks how Gary hears God and his process in learning to hear God clearly.
  • Gary shares a dream/nightmare from his early years.
  • Gary’s Primary School experience with friends.
  • How Gary began a relationship with God and learnt to hear God through reading the Bible.
  • Gary unpacks the process for him of receiving from God today.
  • Gary shares how God loves you and is trying to communicate with you.

Summary: We looked at Gary’s experience with hearing God.

  1. Reflecting on how God may have been talking to Gary, but he didn’t recognise or realise it.
  2. When Gary began recognising that God was communicating with him, he learnt to hear from God through reading the Bible.
  3. Gary unpacks how he receives from God.
  4. Gary explains how God loves you and is trying to communicate with you.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, when I was younger, was there a time you were trying to get my attention and I didn’t realise?”
  • “God, what were You trying to show, tell, or give me?”

Time Stamps:

[0:50] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[4:12] – Jane shares her daily prayer of protection.

[9:20] – Gary shares his experience of getting to know God.

[14:05] – Gary’s dream/nightmare during his early years.

[16:27] – Gary’s Primary School experience with friends.

[18:17] – How Gary began to recognise God was speaking to him.

[19:54] – Gary unpacks the process for him of understanding what God is saying.

[22:33] – Gary shares how God loves you and is trying to communicate with you.

[23:19] – Summary

[24:39] – Prophetic activation.

[25:33] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[28:25] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 103: How Easter affects how I hear God

Episode 103: How Easter affects how I hear God

Apr 5, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Christ is Risen. He is Risen indeed. Since this is Easter Sunday, we thought it would be great to unpack how Easter affects how we hear God. Join us as we unpack how the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ enable us to have a vibrant, living relationship with God, paving the way for communication with Him through both talking and hearing/experiencing Him.

Episode Notes:

First Principle: God is a living relational God

  • John 11:25-26 I am the resurrection and the life.
  • Relationship is two-way.
  • Different ways of communicating – so if God created us, I gather He specialises or excels in every way of communicating. Seeing, hearing, feeling, knowing, etc
  • Eg lady said recently – perhaps God doesn’t want me to see in the Spirit
  • Great question to ask: “If I’m not ‘hearing God’ – is it something on my end?”
  • I’m sure God doesn’t specialise in the ‘silent treatment’.
  • Colossians 1: 15 – Jesus’ image of the invisible God.
  • Hebrews 1:1-2a spoke through His Son.
  • John 1:1-14 God’s Word in flesh. He was the Living Word. Jesus came as the Word of God. Everything Jesus said and did expressed God’s purpose
    • Temple as a kid
    • Healed people
    • Fed the hungry
    • Lifted off shame
    • On the cross, He didn’t belittle the thief.
  • When we remember the eucharist (bread and wine) – what Jesus said and did. Through Jesus’ death, we are forgiven and have an opportunity for restoration. The power of death is cancelled.

Second Principle: Easter removes shame

  • God and shame don’t co-exist. One of the things we see Jesus doing time and time again is removing shame. Dismantling shame. Bring worth and value, grace and mercy to people.
  • In the week leading up to Easter, we read where Jesus had several interactions with people where he could have highlighted and shamed them. Instead, he treated them with respect. Matthew 26.
    • Eg Woman anointing him with a jar of expensive oil
    • Eg Judas – treated like a friend even though he knew he would betray him
    • Eg Jesus knowing that Peter would deny him 3 times
    • Luke 23 – criminal on the cross – extended forgiveness and salvation

Third Principle: Hope and a future replace fear.

  • Reminded of Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
  • God’s unchangeable but in the business of change. When we experience God and His nature and character, we change.
  • Easter transformed the Israelites – legalism broken. In the N.T., sacrificing to gods was rife – needed to appease gods otherwise punished. Jesus tore the curtain in the Temple to enable us to go straight to Him and relate with Him. Pray and listen not through the priest.
  • 1 Peter 1:3 – a living hope and confidence through the resurrection, and we can live in security, joy, hope, confidence, and freedom from fear.

Fourth Principle: We can hear God’s voice

  • John 10 – My sheep hear my voice. God wants a relationship with us. A relationship is two-way.
  • Does God’s voice get drowned out by the noise around or within?
  • Do I filter God’s voice through my wants and what’s convenient?
  • Is God’s voice muffled? Where does my ego fit in?
  • Hearing God’s voice and allowing it to change me and my actions/thoughts/words.

Summary:

  1. First Principle: God is a living relational God
  2. Second Principle: Easter removes shame
  3. Third Principle: Hope and a future replace fear.
  4. Fourth Principle: We can hear God’s voice

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, what would You love to show me afresh about You this Easter?”
  • You may like to read the Easter journey in Matthew 26-28 and Luke 22-24 and ask God to highlight something new.

Time Stamps:

[2:02] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[5:48] – First Principle: God is a living relational God.

[11:40] – Second Principle: Easter removes shame.

[14:21] – Third Principle: Hope and a future replace fear.

[15:53] – Fourth Principle: We can hear God’s voice.

[17:03] – Gary shares how Easter impacts his ability to hear God.

[17:56] – Summary.

[18:20] – Prophetic activation.

[19:26] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[22:03] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • John 11:25-26
  • Colossians 1:15
  • Hebrews 1:1-2a
  • John 1:1-14
  • Matthew 26
  • Luke 23
  • Jeremiah 29:11
  • 1 Peter 1:3
  • John 10
  • Matthew 26-28
  • Luke 22-24

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 102: Hearing God on what to do with my life

Episode 102: Hearing God on what to do with my life

Mar 29, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Do you wish you could hear God tell you what you are meant to do with your life? In this episode, Jane shares how, when she asked God a different question, the answer fell into place. Join Gary & Jane as they share keys to hearing God about this important topic.

Episode Notes:

Last episode:

  • I shared my dilemma of turning 60 and having a ‘mini mid-life crisis’.
  • Today, we are going to unpack that a bit as I found that several women were having a similar experience.

Jane’s experience:

  • Watch – time not running out, but outside of time. Don’t get caught up with time.
  • Need God’s perspective.
  • We are not called to live like the world. Romans 12:1-2.
  • Instead of asking God what I should be doing, focus on the heart relationship with God.
  • Relationship vs rules. Focus instead on just being with God.
  • The God who sees – Hagar in Genesis 16 El Roi (First person to name god)
  • Feel valued. Do we notice it more when feeling low?
  • Need balance in hearing God. Not just experience but Bible, prayer, worship, rest, waiting on God etc. Can get caught up in extremes otherwise.

Summary:

  1. Need God’s perspective.
  2. Cultivate your relationship with God.
  3. Balance in hearing God.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him:

  • “God, El Roi, You are the God who sees. What do You notice about me, God that others may not?”
  • “God, what do You see in my life that perhaps I need to be aware of?”

Time Stamps:

[0:40] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:03] – How to deal with stuff from your past that may trip you up.

[6:02] – Jane shares about her ‘mini mid-life crisis’.

[9:38] – Focus on heart relationship with God instead of asking what I should be doing.

[13:53] – El Roi – The God who sees.

[14:54] – Need balance in hearing God.

[18:08] – Summary

[18:46] – Prophetic activation.

[19:54] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[21:40] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Romans 12:1-2
  • Genesis 16

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 101: Life over Summer

Episode 101: Life over Summer

Mar 22, 2026 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

This first episode for season 4 in 2026 gives listeners an update on how Gary and Jane have heard God over the summer break, amongst all the celebrations, work, and missional activities. They share miracles, ‘coincidences’, and a family update.

Episode Notes:

Life Update:

  • Sarah (daughter) getting engaged.
  • Josh (son) home for Christmas.
  • McCrae SUFM.
  • Camp No Fear.
  • Jane turning 60 and the celebrations.
  • Sarah’s engagement party.

Gary shared how God has been revealing Himself to him over the summer.

  • Gary also shared a miraculous weather miracle after he prayed for a farmer.

Jane shared two ways God has been revealing Himself to her over the summer.

  • Watch stopping three times and the date skipping forward.
  • Mini midlife crisis turning 60, and what am I doing with my life.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him –

  • “God, what do You want me to know about my use of time and my age and my future?”

Time Stamps:

[0:56] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[7:39] – Life update over summer.

[13:09] – Gary shares how he has heard from God over the summer.

[16:15] – Jane shares two major ways she has heard from God over the summer.

[20:03] – Prophetic activation.

[21:07] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[23:42] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 100: Celebrating 100 Episodes

Episode 100: Celebrating 100 Episodes

Nov 9, 2025 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

100 Episodes. Woohoo!! Join us as we celebrate 100 episodes of the Hearing God Podcast. In this episode, we share our reflections, what we’ve learnt, and our favourite episodes (apart from the guests which we have loved hearing their stories but completely forgot to mention but will put links to their episodes in the show notes). We share how doing the podcast has grown us individually, as a couple, and in our relationship with God. Most importantly, it has demystified hearing God for many of our listeners.

Episode Notes:

Explanation of why we are taking a break from the podcast until March 2026.

How the podcast began.

Our favourite episodes, apart from our guests (which we forgot to mention).

Gary’s reflections:

  • Process of hearing God clearer.
  • Recognising how God speaks to me moment by moment, and the power of reflecting on this.
  • The simplicity of hearing God.
  • The process of demystifying the prophetic (hearing God) – taking the mystery out of it.

Jane’s reflections:

  • The authority we carry.
  • Learnt to trust Gary and how he hears God with ‘knowing’.
  • I’m now quicker at recognising the God-incidents in my life.
  • Realising I hear God in movement – not just water but when moving e.g. in the car.
  • Courage to step out in podcasting and the huge learning curve of upskilling in this area.

Summary:

Today both of us have shared our reflections on the podcast and some of the things we’ve learnt. We would love to hear your stories and reflections, so we would love it if you could email us at admin@garyandjane.co and share your stories, or on social media – under Hearing God Podcast – Fb and Instagram

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him –

  • “God, what is one thing I could change to hear You better?”

Time Stamps:

[0:44] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:43] – The plan for the next few months.

[4:20] – Gary & Jane share how the podcast began.

[7:00] – Our favourite episodes (apart from our guests)

[8:33] – Gary’s reflections.

[9:35] – Jane’s reflections.

[16:03] – Summary

[16:38] – Prophetic activation.

[17:16] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[19:07] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Ephesians 3:20

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 99: Hearing God with our finances

Episode 99: Hearing God with our finances

Nov 2, 2025 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

Have you ever asked God how He would love to get resources to you, or how He would love you to manage the resources He gives you? How do you hear God in relation to your finances? In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, Gary & Jane share numerous examples of hearing God with their finances.

Episode Notes:

Introduction & disclaimer:

  • We are not financial experts.
  • We have struggled over the years with money and made financial mistakes. Did we hear God at those times or did God mislead us? We don’t believe God would mislead us and cause us to lose money so did we hear God wrong, or did we just follow our own desires, or the investments were subject to man and went sour?

First Principle: God owns all the wealth and is our provider

  • Psalm 50:10 “for every animal of the forest is mine, and the cattle on a thousand hills.”
  • Psalm 24:1-2 “The earth belongs to God! Everything in all the world is his!2 He is the one who pushed the oceans back to let dry land appear.”
  • God can do the miraculous. He can bring finances and resources to you, but it usually requires you moving forward and partnering with God, not just waiting for God to drop it in your lap.

Second Principle: God is extremely creative at getting finances or what you need to you

  • Gary & Jane share examples from their lives and friends’ lives.
  • Don’t expect God to just work the one way.
  • Asking God, “God, how are You wanting to get resources to me, and am I managing those resources in the way You want me to?”

Third Principle: Our attitude towards finances is important.

  • We can’t worship both God and money.
  • Matthew 6:24-34.“You cannot serve two masters: God and money. For you will hate one and love the other, or else the other way around.  So my counsel is: Don’t worry about things—food, drink, and clothes. For you already have life and a body—and they are far more important than what to eat and wear.  Look at the birds! They don’t worry about what to eat—they don’t need to sow or reap or store up food—for your heavenly Father feeds them. And you are far more valuable to him than they are.  Will all your worries add a single moment to your life?  And why worry about your clothes? Look at the field lilies! They don’t worry about theirs. Yet King Solomon in all his glory was not clothed as beautifully as they.  And if God cares so wonderfully for flowers that are here today and gone tomorrow, won’t he more surely care for you, O men of little faith? So don’t worry at all about having enough food and clothing. Why be like the heathen? For they take pride in all these things and are deeply concerned about them. But your heavenly Father already knows perfectly well that you need them, and he will give them to you if you give him first place in your life and live as he wants you to. So don’t be anxious about tomorrow. God will take care of your tomorrow too. Live one day at a time.”
  • We need to keep money/finances/possessions/resources in the right perspective. Yes, we need finances to live, but we don’t worship money or possessions – they are a tool to be used.
  • We can’t expect God to just drop the finances in our lap. We need to partner with God and creatively work to get the finances.

Summary:

  1. God owns all the wealth and is our provider.
  2. God is extremely creative at getting finances or what you need to you.
  3. Our attitude towards finances is important.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him –

  • “God, who would You currently like me to bless, whether that’s financially, physically, or spiritually?”
  • “God, what exactly will that look like, and if it’s money, how much would You like me to give to them?”

Time Stamps:

[0:36] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[3:59] – Introduction and disclaimer.

[4:40] – First principle: God owns all the wealth and is our provider.

[6:15] – Second Principle: God is extremely creative at getting finances, or what you need, to you.

[13:29] – Third Principle: Our attitude towards finances is important.

[17:21] – Summary

[17:51] – Prophetic activation.

[18:59] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[20:35] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

  • Psalm 50:10
  • Psalm 24:1-2
  • Matthew 6:24-34

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.

Episode 98: Hearing God in our vocation

Episode 98: Hearing God in our vocation

Oct 26, 2025 | 0 comments

Episode Description:

How do you hear God in relation to your work? How do you hear Him at work? In this episode of the Hearing God Podcast, Gary & Jane share personal examples of hearing God at work and how they have stewarded their work by taking time to listen to God while working.

Episode Notes:

First Principle: Is it my enthusiasm or is it God?

  • Jane shares examples from her nursing career and partnering with God.
  • Teachers who have felt to make a difference in how they treated the kids.
  • Gary shares examples from hearing God in relation to his gardening clients.
  • Remember the checks to have in place for when we wonder if we heard God right:
  • Does it align with the Bible?
  • What would Jesus say? Does it fit with Jesus’ character and what God would require of us?
  • Run it past respected, wise and discerning mature people
  • Does it resonate and bring peace to you?
  • Practice hearing God. Take time to listen to God – it’s part of stewarding our work. Steward haring God.
  • What are you asking God in relation to your work?

Second Principle: We are called to obey our boss and to be the best employee but to take every opportunity to share Christ.

  • If you are a business owner, is God your partner in your business?
  • Jane – nursing on Sundays, asking, “What would you normally be doing Sunday mornings?”
  • Covert Christianity
  • No Christianese

Third Principle: God needs to be our number one

  • Obedience and faithfulness to God is success.
  • Eric Liddell, “When I run, I feel God’s pleasure.”
  • What is our purpose? What are we called by God to be that no-one else can?
  • Episode 93 – our unique expression in life.
  • What if your boss asks you to do something wrong / illegal / immoral?” How do we relate that to hearing God?
  • What if there is no opportunity to use your gifting?

Summary:

  1. Is it my enthusiasm or is it God?
  2. We are called to obey our boss and to be the best employee, but to take every opportunity to share Christ.
  3. God needs to be our number one.

Prophetic activation:

Turn your heart and thoughts to Father God and ask Him –

  • “God, what would You love me to adjust in my work situation?”
  • “God, how could I do that?”

Time Stamps:

[0:53] – Gary & Jane share how they have heard God this week.

[5:43] – First principle: Is it my enthusiasm or is it God?

[13:05] – Second Principle: We are called to obey our boss and to be the best employee, but to take every opportunity to share Christ.

[16:02] – Third Principle: God needs to be our number one.

[20:06] – Summary

[20:36] – Prophetic activation.

[21:32] – Gary & Jane share a prophetic word for a listener.

[24:04] – Gary prays for you.

Resources / Links Mentioned:

Bible Verses Mentioned:

Connect with Gary & Jane:

Support the show:

  • Please share this podcast with someone who would value hearing from God.
  • Follow and leave a rating + review on your favourite podcast listening app.
  • If God is leading you to donate or support the show in any way, please visit https://buymeacoffee/garyandjanM Thank you so much.